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After being divorced for 13 years and experiencing the hardest part of her divorce, losing her friend ...her ex...Gabbriella Conte decided to put her thoughts into a letter to the ex. After sending it on its way to him she let a few close friends read it. They encouraged her to write more of her experiences she had been through with the divorce. And the book Shame On Me as born! Gabbriella was told by a local publishing house that there was not a need for her book. But this did not stop her, it only encourage her more to get it into the hands of others out there who have been or are going through what she had been through. Over the course of 5 months while she was off to heal from surgery she put her writing skills to work. She got a micro recorder and spoke her story into it. It was healing for her. Meeting other writers online she decided to try the self publishing route many of them have tried and succeeded with. In a few short, trying months of adapting the manuscript sizing and cover images to their specifications her book was born. At this time she is a few words away from being completed with her second publication For Better~For Worse to be published in 2011, and also her 3rd Happy Ever After~Happily Divorced also to be out in 2011. This will make her a Trilogy for her. She has learned much throughout her 28 year marriage and the 13 years living alone. But the most memorable are the ways in which she has grown as a person and became the woman God would have had her be all along. She has learned she can master anything she puts her mind too. Her book can be purchased on Amazon.com books in paperback and kindle version and also various other bookstores online and Barnes & Noble online and brick & mortar store. She resides in western Pennsylvania with her Siamese Cat and is the proud mom to her 33 year old son who is her best friend. Life is good...no.... life is great! Wonderful son, loving cat, great friends......She is truly blessed and thankful. Gabbriella is hoping to retire someday at the ocean very soon.

Shame On Me
 

I Thought You Were My Friend

Authored by Gabbriella Conte

Shame on Me....I thought we were friends? Fool me once shame on you, fool me twice, shame on me! Divorce----Ex's----Should we befriend them? I had been told he would always be my friend. I had believed that. If that is so then why do I now feel so differently? What did I do to change things? Nothing, absolutely nothing. Nothing previously...nothing recently....no good reason to be ignored ....except for the fact that I am the ex wife. He changed...he made choices...someday he will know if they were the right choices....perhaps he already does know. Maybe it should be "shame on him" in the very end. There are no 12 steps to follow. I won't lead you in that direction. But I will tell you my story and let you make your own choices as to did I do the right thing or not along the way. This is my story and it needs to be heard. I have kept things quiet for way to long.

It all started to end back in 1997. I suppose you could say it started ending way before that, but I could write that in a different book. I am a woman of strong faith & never gave up on our marriage. I fasted, I prayed, I was a submissive wife, I loved unconditionally , I forgave... I believe where is says in the Bible that God hates divorce...I hate divorce...but I also believe strongly that there is no room for abuse in any form in a marriage, especially a Christian marriage. And God also feels that way.
When I decided to leave it was as if I had all of a sudden awakened & saw my life from a different perspective than I had prior. I would rather be alone & happy than live in a marriage without a partner. Being alone while living with someone is far more alone than actually living your life alone. So I left a marriage to a man I had been with since 1973. This was very hard for me to do, but I had Gods arms around me as I did this. I had moved into an unfurnished efficiency apartment, within 5 days of leaving I started dating my hubby again. I guess you could say that I was afraid to upset his world, so it was easier to just keep things as peaceful as I could. I never stopped loving my husband, to this day I will always love him, it is just that I grew in areas that he did not & over time I could say that I was not in love with him anymore. I did not leave him because I did not love him anymore , there was no one else in my life...I take pride in the fact I was a faithful wife. I left because of verbal abuse & hostility towards me and a strong feeling of not being loved. The first few years after I left were tough, working 3 jobs at one point to make ends meet. But all during this time I dated hubby. We shared every holiday of importance with our son. I was ready to move back after 2 and a half years of living on my own because I had thought he loved me. I believe he did ......

Keep your heart open to love. For the forgiving word of a loved one, the compassion , the zest in life. Always be open to receive these from others. Because when you close your heart to another when these are offered that is when you start to allow bitterness, unforgiving, rage and anger to get a foot in the door and begin building that wall that could keep you from the biggest blessing yet to come in your life. I am not perfect by no means, He is still working on me. Choices we all make them, some bad, some good. But we also have a choice in how we handle the choices we make. Allow your self room for failure because it is how we handle these situations we can then see growth in ourselves and begin to like ourselves. And perhaps maybe the only person you have to forgive is yourself for not forgiving yourself for making bad choices.

A SPECIAL THANK YOU TO : Pat Casella, Sewickley, PA
Artist ....Pat, Thank you for the wonderfully designed cover. You have captured what we were after so beautifully. God Bless you for your help!


Publication Date:
2010-05-21
ISBN/EAN13:
1451512392 / 9781451512397
Page Count:
108
Binding Type:
US Trade Paper
Trim Size:
5.25" x 8"
Language:
English
Color:
Black and White
Related Categories:
Biography & Autobiography / Women




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